Are you looking for how to be a feminine woman in a relationship?
Have you been searching for how can I become more feminine in my relationship?
If either of these is true, then this article is perfect for you.
I am sharing with you how to bring more femininity into your romantic relationships and how to create a connection that is the most fulfilling both to you and your partner.
The feminine and masculine polarity
You have both – feminine and masculine – energies within you.
These energies are in a polarity – feminine energy attracts masculine energy and vice versa.
Throughout your life, you taught yourself to lead predominantly with either feminine or masculine energy.
Learning how to be a feminine woman in a relationship will make it possible for you to consciously navigate the relationship polarity and bring your ideal healthy connection.
How to be a feminine woman in a relationship
Here are 25 ways how to be a feminine woman in a relationship:
- Bring him to the present moment
- Experience your feelings
- Nurture yourself first
- Keep building other relationships
- Make yourself feel safe
- Get in your body
- Learn how to receive
- Don’t fight for attention
- Show him vulnerability
- Help him feel better and stronger
- Ask him for help
- Let him lead you
- Be the heart of the relationship
- Keep taking care of your appearance
- Switch up your apperance
- Keep exploring what makes you happy
- Keep the respect in the relationship
- Know your boundaries
- Stay away from toxic attitude
- Have an abundance mindset
- Develop your goals and passions
- Strive for authenticity
- Give him a chance to miss you
- Be responsible for your own happiness
- Inspire him
Let me give you a short explanation to each of those:
1. Bring him to the present moment
Masculine energy is always planning, strategizing, organizing. Feminine is always aware of the present surroundings, experiencing the moment.
A feminine woman brings the masculine from the forward-thinking world into the present moment, where he can fully experience the beauty of right here right now.
To be able to do that, work on your mindfulness and your ability to be present.
2. Experience your feelings
If you lead with masculinity, you cut yourself off from how you feel.
Check-in with yourself. How are you feeling right now?
When you are in your feminine, you will be more connected to how you feel and what is going on inside of you.
3. Nurture yourself first
When you take care of yourself and fill up your own cup, you have more to give others.
Give yourself what is it you need.
Feminine is all about being receptive. Receiving care, ideas, thoughts, support. Ask yourself: what do I need right now?
4. Keep building other relationships
Don’t rely only on your romantic relationship for connection. Keep yourself busy developing other relationships too.
Stay connected to your family members, your friends. Feminine keeps building new relationships and connecting to the people you love.
5. Make yourself feel safe
You might have noticed that every time you go into fight or flight response, the relationship dynamic turns for the worse.
If you feel like you need to fight and protect yourself, your masculine is in charge. Of course, the right man will make you feel safer. But most of the time, you need to make yourself feel safe first!
6. Get in your body
Do you spend more time throughout the day in your head or your heart? Do your think or feel more?
If you are in your head, you are in your masculine. Connect to your body more. Feel your body, your heart space. When you are in your body and heart, you are back in your feminine.
7. Learn how to receive
Are you an over-giver? How do you receive without feeling obliged to reciprocate?
Giving is beautiful and a part of a healthy relationship. But have you learned the art of receiving?
Showing gratitude for what he does for you will make both of you happier in the relationship. And it will inspire him to do even more for you in the future.
8. Don't fight for attention
Don’t chase. Don’t try to guilt him into spending more time with you.
Instead, focus on your own life. Let the attention come to you. When you don’t need or demand attention, it will naturally come to you.
9. Show him vulnerability
Show him your softer side. When you are vulnerable, it opens up the door for him to be vulnerable too.
So show him you are really happy when you are. It’s okay to cry if something really touched you.
10. Help him feel better and stronger
A man wants to feel like he can protect and take care of you. So help him do that!
Compliment his efforts, appreciate him, encourage him.
It’s the opposite of being overly critical and nagging. Help him feel like a man and he will love you for it!
11. Ask him for help
Don’t be afraid to ask him for help! You are not weak to do that.
A man loves when he can feel useful and helpful. Ask him how he thinks things should be done or what he would do in a certain situation.
Asking for help is a great way how to be a feminine woman in a relationship.
12. Let him lead you
To do this you need to understand his vision and his decision-making.
Do you believe his vision? Do you trust the way he makes big decisions?
When you understand and trust his decisions, it empowers him and makes him feel good.
13. Be the heart of the relationship
The feminine energy is the heart of the relationship.
When you are in your feminine, you connect with him emotionally. You bring out his softer side and make him feel loved and connected.
The essence of femininity is loving, compassionate, caring, and kind.
14. Keep taking care of your appearance
This shows you respect yourself.
A woman’s appearance is one of her most powerful tools. If you don’t take care of your appearance, it will show.
You know you got too comfortable if you just wear sweatpants and messy hair.
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15. Switch up your appearance
Change things up from time to time. Spice things up. Men are very visual and they are inspired by what they see.
Putting effort into your appearance is a long-term thing, not just when you are dating. You want to keep leveling up for yourself, not for him.
16. Keep exploring what makes you happy
Keep finding new activities, new people. Try different things. Don’t get stuck.
A woman who is happy is a very attractive thing. When you are doing things that make you happy, it will show in your interactions with him.
17. Keep the respect in the relationships
Keep communicating with respect and treat him how you want to be treated.
Instead of arguing and yelling, communicate in a softer way. Keep your composure.
18. Know your boundaries
Be sure to know your own personal boundaries and what you are and are not okay with.
You can only be truly soft and kind when you know you are in your personal power and you can trust yourself in communicating your boundaries.
Boundaries ensure you can relax in the relationships.
19. Stay away from toxic attitude
Complaining, rolling your eyes, mocking, and sarcasm will push him away over time.
Work on yourself to be a positive woman, not someone who is constantly negative.
There are healthier ways how to express yourself and your emotions.
20. Have an abundance mindset
Believe that there is plenty to go around. You have everything you need right now.
Feeling lack will only attract more lack into your life.
When you have an abundance mindset, it will show in how you treat others and how they respond to you.
21. Develop your goals and passions
You are not just a prop to stay at home. Keep discovering yourself and keep being active.
That’s what will make him stay interested. He wants to support your passion and goals and help you out.
22. Strive for authenticity
Be genuine and authentic in your communication. Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. It shows that you are trustworthy and real.
Have your own opinions. Express your opinions. Speak your mind.
23. Give him a chance to miss you
If you spend too much time together, it’s time to take some time off.
Spend time on your own. Travel somewhere. Do your own thing. Practice reconnecting to yourself.
Practice stillness for your own sake of becoming a better person. Give him take space and he will chase you again.
24. Be responsible for your own happiness
No one else can make you happy. You are in charge of your own happiness.
When you take responsibility for your happiness, it empowers you and changes how you interact with the world around you. Don’t put all the pressure on him.
25. Inspire him
Inspire him with your kindness, beauty, and love. Constantly move to become a better version of yourself. Be warm to yourself and the world.
When you are a positive force in his life, it inspires him to be better.
And that’s a wrap.
These are 25 ways how to be a feminine woman in a relationship.
Remember, it’s not about changing who you are, but simply fine-tuning the qualities that make you unique and attractive.
When you start practicing these things, you will see how they positively affect your relationships.
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