On my path to becoming more feminine, I stumbled upon the topic of nurturing.
We as women have the ability to create an atmosphere for something to grow. We can protect and care for.
I never saw my mother do this for her partner.
I never had a role model to follow.
I am discovering everything on my own. And now in my current romantic relationship, I am very intentional about it.
It feels great for me to be in that role.
Caring, soft, warm, gentle.
I am discovering a completely new part of me. And I want more of this.
It feels somehow mature, that I am stepping into womanhood.
It opens my heart.
To be caring for others, nurturing, creating a safe place for others.
This is how I tap into my feminine nurturing energy right now.
I hope you feel inspired!
1. Be a good listener
Take time to listen to your partner.
Give him your full attention. Create a space for him. Ask questions that show you really care.
For him, it’s not important, that you give him the right answers. You are not asked to solve his problems. He just needs someone who listens.
So don’t feel any pressure. Give him your honest opinions, ask sincere questions and encourage him.
2. Take care of your environment
Step into your femininity every day by nurturing the things around you.
Creating things more beautiful, more welcoming. Intentionally creating a space that feels like home.
I clean with the intention, that this is our home. I love doing that. I love to care for the space we live in.
Be grateful for the things you have around and nurture them.
Express your caring through touch. Love his body, make him rest and relax.
I have fun connecting to my touch.
More than often I give him massages, not for him, but more for myself. To connect to my senses. To practice my femininity, my nurturing.
I believe that our touch can be healing.
Remember, this is not about over-giving. Only you doing all the work.
The right partner will give you back as much as he can, he recognizes your qualities, your values and he gives back.
There is so much more for me to explore on this topic. There are so many more levels and areas.
Let me know what you think.